I'm short, overweight, average looking, and bald. If your belief system helps YOU then thats great. Your taking the time to write about your unhappiness leads me to think that there is a part of you that has been wanting to challenge yourself and was looking for encouragement.
Olsen, Today, Gay men get older too thought about writing down some of my inner feelings, so I stumbled upon your article The curse? Growing a beard? I also find it interesting that people like myself who are attracted to older men that horrid term gerontophilia seem to have very VERY similar likes.
If I have gay men get older too platform, I will be an out, proud, gay something. In other words: Just because you wouldn't want to sleep with you, UGLY, that doesn't mean no one wants to sleep with you. Body type of older male I find attractive is generally overweight or big enough to have some intimidation, essential he is dominant.
So while some of these "relationships" may indeed be about the money, many of the May-December relationships are truly about love. He could be your Disney prince, sure. Since this article is about attraction to older gay males I will stick with describing this attraction.
But when I look around, I see too many of my peers battling to cope. He wanted more than sex, he wanted intellect and adult companionship, I don't know what the future holds for us. My brother, who is a few years younger than me, is straight and already a grandfather.