He has lied to you even when you asked him about your relationship, for decades. I really do believe these guys love their wives when they get married. The only thing that saved my sanity was the Straight Spouse Network, an international support group founded by another woman who'd been married to a gay man.
Community woven in struggle. He had me in very bad shape with that one. Rarer than finding delicious fruitcake, it's hard to be human, let alone gay, and then to be stung by the "Should Bee's" of life put upon us by others. There was no information out there. Well, there were a few bellboys, but I'm not one to kiss and tell.
Impeachment: Do it now and get it over with.
And pretty much everything about you seems like an imperfection or actually not an imperfection but a big big badness. While the media focuses on the men, I watch their wives standing next to them and wonder about the suffering, lies, emotional confusion and rage that they may be living through.
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